Recently, my life has taken some major turns. Never did I think that I would be on the path that I am currently on. In less than a year, I will be married to a wonderful human being, I am now doing what I have secretly always wanted to do (Coach Women's Basketball), and I am about to push another dream of mine, which is becoming an author. You just never know when or how life will come full circle for you. Remaining positive, regardless of what life will and has thrown at you is important. Understanding that you will endure and realizing that you yourself are enough. Yes, I will repeat that one more time... YOU YOURSELF ARE ENOUGH!
I had a talk with my young ladies after one of our games and I had to let them know that they were enough, individually and collectively as a team. That weather they had seven players or five players, they are capable of competing and winning every time they step on the floor. Everything that they keep looking outside for, whether it be towards other young ladies on the team, other coaches, or whomever... Everything in which they seek is within them already. The tools, the skills, and the ability is all there and once they realize that individually first and then collectively, things will begin to change as a whole. Not just their life as athletes, but as human beings as well.
Life is a funny thing in that way. We spend much of our life searching for something that has always been inside of us. We think that once we get that ONE job, or get into that ONE relationship, or get that ONE big break, then and only then will life change for the better. The sad part to that is, not one of those ONE things that we are waiting for, will have the type of impact we are expecting and/or looking for. We are wasting time, when the only ONE thing we need is OURSELF.
It sounds crazy only because you don't have the confidence in yourself to chase your dreams. You believe that you don't deserve those things you dream about. You don't believe that you are capable of achieving certain things because you just don't believe that you are flat out worthy. First things first. Change your mindset. Change how you view yourself. Notice I didn't say how others few you. You got to work on you from the inside out because that is where the true power is.
It's time to take stock and re-evaluate who you are and what you see. Because if you don't see Greatness in yourself, then the battle is already lost. Believe in who you were meant to Be by Divine Right, Not who the world says you should be!
Love and Light!
Namaste' - " I See The Divine In You"
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