Embracing CHANGE

It's amazing how life can take the swiftest turn and CHANGE everything you thought to be possible. CHANGE does not always mean the loss of something... CHANGE is a means of creating another way to ACCOMPLISH your goals...



Monday, March 21, 2016

Celebrating Failure

Hello Everyone!!! Now I know as you read the title you probably are thinking.... "Why the Hell would anyone want to celebrate failure?" But, if you think about it, it really all makes sense. In our moments of failure there is always a lesson to be learned. In addition, in that very moment that you succeed, that is the moment in which you are celebrating your failure. If you think about what I am saying then you will see that it is all simply about your perspective. The way you view things is important because how you respond to that very thing is based on your mindset. 
What often happens is that we allow the emotion within us regarding "that thing" to dictate our actions. And that my friend is a recipe for disaster. Making critical decisions based on your emotions does not allow one to see things with a clear head. And as we all have heard or have even told others, being in one's feelings is not a pleasant place to be. 
Failure in itself is very unsettling for many. The very thought of failure keeps people from chasing their dreams. The fear of failure places people in a prison built by self, limiting our ability to truly see our own power and strength to succeed and accomplish whatever it is we seek. Just the mention of the word failure places people in a place engulfed in doubt and insecurity. It is important that we NOT be afraid to fail because with failure comes success. Just think about it. When you fail at something you definitely learn what not to do next time, you learn what worked and what didn't work. You may even learn a NEW way to accomplish the task at hand. It is definitely a chance for you to gain a greater level of self-awareness and build character or in fact have your character revealed to you. Regardless of what comes from failure, in the end it is all about your PERSPECTIVE. 
Failure is either going to MAKE YOU or BREAK YOU. Ultimately, the decision is up to you. You have the power and you make the choice on how things will play out. If defeat is the stance you choose, then defeat is what you will feel. And from that point the choices you make will be guided by that feeling of defeat. However, if you can take that failed situation and all that you have learned and make an effort towards still accomplishing that goal, then the decisions you make from that point will still be guided by the goal of ultimately attaining success. PERSPECTIVE will change your life, it will change the way you think and most importantly the way you speak. Your language will either manifest your success or manifest your failure. You have the power and it is your choice.
In life you will learn the valuable lesson of picking your battles. Well in this scenario you can either fight for what you believe in and speak life into your life or you can allow defeat and failure to fight the good fight for you. But, I am pretty sure none of us want to live a life of mundane existence when we can live a life of happiness, power, strength, and SUCCESS. 
YOU DECIDE.........

Until we meet again my friends..... PEACE and BLESSINGS.

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