The Beauty Of Pain

Pain is a part of life that most of us DO NOT like to endure. It is not so much the pain itself, but the process that comes along with enduring the pain. Contrary to popular belief pain IS NOT a bad thing. Pain can teach us many things, not just about the other individual, or the situation, but about ourselves as well. It teaches us about our level of strength, our resiliency, and most importantly we realize that the pain is never permanent. We cannot become stagnant in our feelings and the situation we are currently in. We must take it at face value for what it really is and focus on how to move forward and what you can take with you along the way. Recognize that you DO NOT want to take any baggage that is going to lead you back to this situation again. That is not to say that you may not face the same situation again, but if you do learn from the past and move differently the next time. Try not to repeat the same mistake twice. Be better the next time around. It's just like in school when you would come in and take the quiz, which was usually just a pre-cursor to the exam coming up at the end of the week. Same rules apply in life, make the necessary corrections from the first quiz and apply the correct answers when the exam comes around.
It is also important to learn about yourself while experiencing and enduring pain. Understand your triggers and weak points, recognize your strengths and build upon them, don't focus on your weaknesses, but don't disregard them either. Recognize where you are weak and figure out how to become stronger. It's not always about the mistake itself, but how resilient you are once the mistake has been made. We will make many mistakes in our lifetime, but we must keep moving and press forward to greater adventures. Life is about trial and tribulations, but don't mistake it, everything doesn't have to be done the hard way, and everything doesn't have to be a struggle either. Be true to yourself and what you want out of life and work continuously towards that. Remember to keep GOD first and everything else will fall into place. Always remember that PAIN BUILDS CHARACTER. Your story wouldn't be as great without a couple of horror scenes. Be Blessed me fellow BLOGGERS.